How To Suck Dick: The Ultimate Guide

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Learning how to suck dick is super easy and this ultimate guide is going to show you everything you need to know! After reading this guide, you’ll have an arsenal of techniques, tips, and tactics that you can use to suck dick like a pro and make your guy orgasm harder than ever before!

Whether you want to discover some new moves to keep things fresh and exciting in the bedroom or want to learn how to give your guy a hot n’ nasty blowjob – this guide is all you need! I’ll cover everything from basic moves to advanced techniques that will help you rock your man’s world!

This guide is fairly straightforward; just read it from start to finish and try out whatever takes your fancy! However, if you’re already quite good at certain techniques, feel free to click on any of the following topics below and skip right ahead to the info you’re most interested in!

Before we begin, a word of caution: The techniques and moves in this guide will help you give your man such powerful, shaking orgasms that he may become hopelessly devoted to you and only you! Don’t be surprised if his start calling and BEGGING you for more, even if you’re just casually dating. You have been warned!

How to start sucking dick

You may be wondering what the ‘best technique’ is to use on your guy when you suck his dick. But slow down! Learning how to suck dick is all about establishing and maintaining communication and finding out your guy’s preferences. Once you know what makes him tick you can start enthusiastically teasing and tantalizing him to within an inch of his life! Even if you aren’t totally sure about what you’re doing, focusing on these four things will stand you in good stead.

The importance of communication

Giving your man a mind-blowing blowjob starts long before you wrap your lips around his cock. You need to build suspense by planting the idea in his mind, and there are numerous ways to do just that! Whether you talk dirty to him, send him a sexy photo or drive him wild with a flirty message, your key objective should be to excite your guy until he can’t wait to feel your mouth around his penis!

If dirty talk isn’t your forte, here are some ideas to get the ball rolling. Trying telling your guy how much you can’t wait to feel his cock inside your mouth. Or tell him how sexy it makes you feel when you suck him off. Tell him how much you love the taste of his cum and how you want to suck every last drop out of his balls! The conversation will build from there and you’ll be well on your way.

Find out his preferences

Your guy isn’t going to adore ALL of the techniques in this guide. That’s why you need to find which activities rock his world and which ones make his heart beat a little faster! Dirty talk is a great way of helping your man better communicate his sexual preferences. You can suggest all the hot n’ nasty things you want to do to him and see which ones make his eyes light up – those are the ones you’ll want to focus on!

Once you establish good communication, your guy may open up about what he really wants when you suck his cock. This approach is MUCH better than trying to second-guess him! Don’t forget: communication is a two-way street. If there’s something you aren’t totally comfortable with, it’s important that your man understands and respects this.

Be enthusiastic

Experience is the best teacher and you can’t expect to ace the techniques in this guide simply by reading them. You need to practice! They’ll undoubtedly be times when you are trying things out that you aren’t totally confident about. That’s where enthusiasm comes in. When you suck your guy’s dick, don’t just go through the motions – eye him up like a lioness stalking her prey and suck him off with intense passion!

The No.1 rule which sucking dick is this; when in doubt, act enthusiastically! Enthusiasm will help you appear far more confident and this will make things much more enjoyable for your guy. You can build confidence by trying some of the techniques in this guide on a dildo or even a banana. But for some techniques, like hand movements and making eye contact, there’s no substitute for the real thing. You just need to go in guns blazing and act sexually confident. Remember: Fake it until you make it!

If you’re feeling nervous or ill at ease, one of the BEST strategies for overcoming this is to remember a simple truth: your guy is probably just as nervous about ‘performing’ as you are about sucking his cock! He may be worried about his cock going limp, or about blowing his load too soon, or not at all! He’ll probably be too focused on himself to even notice if you screw up or make a mistake, so just relax and go for it!

Tease and tantalize him

Once you’ve used dirty talk to establish good communication with your guy and are attuned to his preferences, you’ll have a good idea about which buttons you can press to get him excited! When you’re out and about, whisper into his ear all the kinky things you have planned for him later! It could be the amazing new blowjob techniques you’ve just read about or something you KNOW he won’t be able to resist! Teasing and tantalizing your man will really amp up the sexual tension and make sucking his dick far more powerful later on!

To rachet up the pressure while kissing or talking to your guy, try placing your hand on his inner thigh and ever so lightly stroking his testicles with your little finger. His balls are so sensitive that this will feel incredible even through his clothing and is sure to work him up into a hot, steamy mess!

From here, you can progress to putting your hand on his crotch and massaging his penis and testicles through his clothing. Try tracing your fingers around his dick and balls, and feel free to get a little rougher by softly grabbing and squeezing his manhood while you tell him what you have in store for him later!

10 powerful techniques for sucking dick

So you want to learn how to suck dick and make your guy’s eyes roll back in his head? This section will show you 10 incredible techniques for sucking your man’s dick until his legs start to spasm and his cock explodes with pleasure!

1. The spread ‘em!

An important, yet often overlooked, part of sucking dick is how you take charge of your man. Don’t just kneel in front of him, unzip his flies and timidly take hold of his cock. Instead, pull down his pants like a boss, place one of your hands on each of his thighs and forcefully drive his legs apart; he’ll LOVE it! This move not only lets him know that you’re the one in control; it also subconsciously signals to him that it’s time to relax. This one simple trick will make the experience feel a million times better!

2. The ball licker

Instead of just taking your guy in your mouth, try working around to his manhood first. Hold his dick in one hand and start kissing and licking his testicles. Kiss around his crotch and groin while massaging his balls with your fingers or softly tickling them with your fingertips. Never underestimate just how sensitive a guy’s testicles are; licking and stroking his balls will make his cock absolutely rock hard in seconds!

3. The nipple twister

Your guy’s nipples are one of his major erogenous zones and they may even be more sensitive than yours! Use this to your advantage! While you lick, kiss and caress his balls, reach up and start rubbing his nipples in a circular motion or back and forth. Trying pinching, flicking and lightly twisting them to enhances his sexual arousal! Feel free to incorporate this technique later when you start sucking his dick!

4. The frenulum frenzy

The most sensitive spot on your guy’s dick isn’t the shaft or even the head, it’s his frenulum. This is found on the underside of the tip of his penis, just where the shaft joins the glans. Lightly flicking your tongue across this area is intensely pleasurable and is definitely something you should try!

Begin by taking your man’s dick in your hands and gently pulling down his foreskin. Start flicking his frenulum in an up-and-down motion, or side-to-side motion, with your tongue and feel him writhe and squirm in his seat! If your guy has been circumcised, his frenulum may have been removed, but it’s still possible that this area will feel super-arousing for him! Try it and see!

5. The lip wrap

While it is possible to lightly glide your teeth over your man’s dick for extra stimulation, as a general rule you should avoid using your teeth while sucking his dick. Contact between your teeth and his dick can be extremely painful – especially if it’s accidental. To avoid this, the best technique to master is the lip wrap where you wrap your lips around your teeth. This makes your lips act as a soft barrier that will make sucking his cock feel much more satisfying. You may want to try this move on your finger or a dildo to get the hang of it before trying it on your guy’s member!

6. The Twist and Jerk

If you’re anxious about sucking your guy’s dick for the first time, a good strategy to try is the Twist and Jerk technique. To do this, hold your man’s cock in one of your hands and wrap your lips around the head of his penis. Instead of moving your mouth back and forth in a standard blowjob movement, keep your mouth static and start giving your guy a handjob. This ISN’T CHEATING! Hand stimulation actually enhances the pleasure and enjoyment! This move will help you become more comfortable with blowing your guy and will provide more build-up and teasing for what’s in store for him later!

7. The slow blow

Temperature play is awesome and it’s a great way to ratchet up your guy’s passion levels and make him squirm with delight! Take his dick in your mouth for a few moments until it’s dripping wet with your saliva, then blow a cool stream of air over the head of his dick. This is sure to make him moan with delight – especially if you continue stroking his shaft with your hand while you blow!

(By the way, this is a really good ‘resting’ move you can keep in mind for later. If you need a break from sucking your guy’s cock, blowing him will give you the chance to recover and rest before going at it again!)

8. The Tornado Tongue

When your guy is literally losing his mind with anticipation, the Tornado tongue is the move that you’ll want to unleash! Hold his dick steady with one or both of your hands and take the head of his penis in your mouth. Then start to swirl your tongue around his head a few times – clockwise or anticlockwise, it doesn’t matter! After a while, take his dick further into your mouth and back out before repeating the swirling movement again. This blowjob technique is utterly thrilling and is sure to give him the ride of his life!

9. The Big O

When you feel comfortable enough to take your guy’s dick in your mouth, it’s time to crack out the Big O. The Big O is the standard blowjob technique and is the bread and butter of sucking dick. Here’s what to do: Make a tight ‘O’ shape with your lips around your guy’s penis and start bobbing your head up and down his shaft. If you’re new to this, focus on the first two or so inches of his dick. With practice, you can start taking more and more of your guy’s shaft into your mouth with each thrust!

Warning: The deeper you go, the more you risk triggering your gag reflex. This is perfectly natural and nothing to worry about, but if you want to learn to overcome this, I’ll teach you a way of desensitizing your gag reflex and mastering the deep throat blowjob later on!

10. The ball handler

Once you’ve mastered the Tornado tongue and the Big O, you can switch up the pressure, depth, and speed endlessly to create limitless combinations. To really send your dick sucking game into the stratosphere, the icing on the cake is learning how to work your guy’s balls. While you suck your man’s dick, trying fondling, caressing, tickling and massaging his testicles to see what he enjoys the most. This adds a whole other dimension to the experience and is something he’s sure to love. Just keep in mind that his balls are super sensitive, so keep your touch incredibly light and avoid squeezing too hard!

How to finish sucking dick in style

I’ve shown you the best, most powerful techniques for sucking your guy’s dick, but the secret to giving the perfect blowjob lies in the ending. Get it right and your guy will be levitating for the rest of the day (and quite possibly the rest of the week!). Get it wrong and you could undo all your hard work, and maybe even cause him pain, which is a huge no-no. Here are the top five ways to finish sucking your guy’s dick and make it deeply pleasurable.

1. Increase eye contact

Making eye contact with your guy while you suck his dick makes the experience incredibly intimate and intense. However, it is possible to take things too far; maintaining unbroken eye contact may freak him out a little! Try looking at him for three seconds at a time to build tension before breaking eye contact and focusing on pleasuring him. When you feel that he’s nearly there, try to increase eye contact to highlight your submissiveness and underscore your readiness to take his load in any way he wants!

2. Suck less, rub more

If your guy needs plenty of friction and lots of speed to cum, you may not be able to move your head fast enough to satisfy him! That’s why a good way to finish sucking dick in style is to use the Twist and Jerk technique where you keep the tip of his dick in your mouth and give him a handjob. An awesome way to end a blowjob in style is to alternate between the Big O and the Twist and Jerk technique to give your guy the stimulation he needs to orgasm!

3. Edge him

Edging is the process of bringing your guy to the point of orgasm and then stopping the stimulation to let him cool down. Here’s what to do. When you feel your man is ready to cum, back off and trying doing something entirely different such as blowing on his dick, fondling his balls, or licking his shaft. After a few moments, start sucking his dick again and power him towards an orgasm! This will make his orgasm far more intense and fulfilling and will make him cum buckets!

4. Take a facial

When your guy is ready to blow his load you basically have two options: take it in your mouth or take it on your face. To figure out the best route, try talking dirty to him and flat-out asking which he prefers. Be direct and say something simple such as “Do you want to cum on my face?” His reaction will tell you all you need to know to decide whether he’s into facials or not! In this case, try the Twist and Jerk technique until he’s ready to cum and then open wide, look him in the eyes and jerk him off until he sprays his load in your face. After he cums, remember to slow down so that the stimulation isn’t too painful for him!

5. Spit or swallow

If your man isn’t into facials, try asking him “Do you want to cum in my mouth?” If his eyes light up, here’s what to do. Alternate between the Big O and Tornado tongue technique until he ejaculates into your mouth. If swallowing is too out there for you, try looking him in the eyes, playing with his cum in your mouth for a few moments and then spitting it out into a tissue. If you want to go the whole nine yards, be sure to check out my best cum swallowing advice in the last section of this guide!

Learn how to suck dick like a porn star

Have you ever wanted to learn how to suck dick like a porn star? I’ve got you covered! In this section, I’ll show you FIVE of the nastiest, dirtiest and downright hottest techniques that you can try with your guy TONIGHT! Best of all, these techniques aren’t too difficult to master and are guaranteed to leave your guy breathless and BEGGING you for more!

1. The dick slap

The key to sucking dick like a porn star is adopting the right mindset and going at it like a bat out of hell! To get your guy’s dick so hard it feels like it might explode, drop to your knees and grab his shaft in one of your hands. Use the Big O and Tornado tongue techniques to work him into a frenzy and then proceed to open your mouth and stick out your tongue as if you’re about to lick an enormous ice cream. Then start slapping your guy’s dick repeatedly over your tongue like it’s a drumstick!

Alternate between sucking him off and slapping his cock to give him a mind-blowing experience that he won’t soon forget! Get creative and try slapping his dick onto the side of your cheek or opening your mouth wide and slapping it into the inside of your mouth! After a while, encourage him to take the lead and start slapping away – he’ll love it!

2. The head grab

Once your guy’s dick is super erect and bulging, here’s what to do. Start the Big O technique on his shaft and then grab his hands and place them ON your head. With this move, you’re basically saying, “Have at it. Do what you want with my head.” He’ll love being in control and being able to decide the depth and pace of penetration and adjust it to his liking. And, if you gag, well, that’s all part of the fun!

3. The perineum lick

The difference between a run-of-the-mill blow job and a no-holds-barred suck fest is all about boundaries; how far are you willing to take things in the pursuit of pleasure? I’ve already discussed ball licking and sucking, but to really ramp things up a notch, it’s time to venture south!

In between dick sucking techniques such as the Tornado tongue and the Big O, take your guy’s dick in your hand and lower your head. His perineum is the area of skin between his testicles and this anus and it’s SUPER sensitive! Licking this area while stroking his shaft is sure to make your guy’s eyes roll back in his head!

4. Give him a rim job

If you want to get super-freaky, trying giving your guy a rim job while you suck his dick! Ass licking is incredibly erotic and can transform a blowjob from ordinary to orgasmic! With your guy in a reclining position, have him raise one of his legs and start fingering his ass with some of your favorite lube. You can then start gently kissing and licking his ass! (Get my best techniques here!)

Unlike any other technique in this guide, anal play takes a little preparation and there are some precautions you should take. Check out my complete guide to preparing for anal sex to find out more!

5. Deep throat his cock

The hallmark of any porn star worth their salt is giving a mind-bending deep throat blowjob. This takes a little practice to master, so I devoted the penultimate section of this guide to show you exactly how it’s done!


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The 5 sexiest positions for sucking dick

If you master the techniques in my guide, you’ll be able to make your guy cum in ANY position – whether he’s sitting, standing or upside down! However, there are five go-to techniques that outshine the rest and deserve to be in your repertoire. Here they are…

1. The Elevator

Technique
Have your guy stand with his legs shoulder-width apart and kneel on the floor between his legs (maybe on a small cushion or pillow to save your knees!) Take his shaft in your hands and start licking, kissing and fondling his balls before working your way along his shaft with light kisses and nibbles. Take his dick in your mouth and use the Tornado Tongue or Big O techniques to stimulate his cock until he cums in your mouth or blows his load over your face!

Advantages:

  • This position makes it easy to take one of your guy’s testicles into your mouth while you give him a handjob. You can also stimulate his perineum with your fingers!
  • To unleash your inner porn star, try the ‘head grab’ technique and enjoy having your guy direct and guide your head into the perfect position!
  • If your guy is into facials, there’s NO better position to try than the Elevator!

2. The Boss’ Chair

Technique
Have your guy sit on a recliner and drop his pants and underwear. Spread his knees and kneel between his legs. Crack out your best blowjob moves such as the Tornado tongue by enthusiastically swirling your tongue around the head of his dick while fondling his testicles. Gaze lovingly into his eyes to show how submissive and willing you are to have him shoot his load into your mouth!

Advantages:

  • This position gives you complete control over the depth and pace of the action, however, you can always use the ‘head grab’ technique to let your guy fuck your mouth in any way he pleases!
  • The Boss’ chair is awesome for role-play! Why not dress up as a slutty secretary and let your guy imagine he’s your boss?

3, The Reverse Face Sitter

Technique
Lie on your back on a bed and support your head on a pillow. Have your guy straddle your chest so that his dick is hovering above your mouth. Take his shaft in your hands and start giving him a handjob while you lick and suck his testicles with your tongue and mouth. Take his dick into your mouth and use the Twist and Jerk technique to build your guy’s passion levels until he drenches your face with his cum!

Advantages

  • This position is VERY submissive and gives your guy a great deal of control over the depth and pace of the action. However, you can grab his hips to limit the depth of his thrusts and take back control if you feel things are getting TOO out there!
  • This position is ideal for a range of kinky acts like sucking your guy’s balls, licking his perineum or even giving him a rim job while you fondle his shaft with your hands.

4. The Plumber

Technique
Lie on your back on a bed and have your guy straddle your head, with his knees to either side of your ears. He leans forward until he’s on his hands and knees with his cock hovering over your mouth. Unlike the Reverse Face Sitter position, your shoulders will be under his thighs, limiting your movement somewhat. Your guy is free to use your mouth as he sees fit, either by thrusting downwards or having you reach up and suck his cock while he stays in a static position.

Advantages:

  • If you’ve ever dreamed of being your man’s fuck toy, this is the position for you! He’ll ADORE thrusting back and forth into your mouth until he blows his load and sprays your face with his cum!
  • If you love submission play, you’ll get a kick out of the sense of being vulnerable that this position offers!

Remember: At the heart of submission play is love, respect and fairness. Always set an agreed-upon safe word or action that you can use to stop the blowjob if you feel it’s getting a little too outside of your comfort zone.

5. The Table Surfer

Technique
Lie on your back on a table with your knees bent at a 45-degree angle and your head resting over the edge. Have your guy stand to the side of the table and hold your hips as he enters your mouth with his shaft. This is definitely an advanced blowjob move, so if lying on a table is too extreme, you can try a simpler variation by lying on a sofa and having your guy kneel on the floor to enter you.

Advantages:

  • If you want to try to deep throat your guy’s dick, this is one of the best positions to try! It puts your mouth and throat into alignment which makes it easier to take your guy’s dick deeper into your mouth.
  • If you love being dominated, you’ll adore the feeling of helplessness that this position creates!

How to deep throat when you suck dick

If you want to suck your guy’s dick like never before, learning how to deep throat should definitely be on your to-do list! Deep throating lets you take his shaft deeper into your body, maximizing pleasure for him and opening up an array of new experiences such as having him ejaculate in your throat and gagging on his cock while he’s inside you!

The problem?

Your pharyngeal reflex, or gag reflex for short. Unless you’re fortunate enough to be in the roughly 40 percent of women who don’t have a gag reflex, you’ll need to spend some time and effort to learn how to desensitize your tonsils and the back of your throat. Here’s what to do.

Step 1. Take the handle of a toothbrush that has been cleaned and sterilized and insert it into your mouth. Slowly edge it back towards your tonsils until it triggers your gag reflex. The first time you do this, it may make you feel like throwing up.

Step 2. When you feel your gag reflex being to kick in, try to suppress it and hold the toothbrush handle in place. Concentrate on breathing through your nose while relaxing your throat and holding the toothbrush steady for as long as you can. The first time you try this, you may only be able to bear it for a second. With practice, you’ll be able to build up your tolerance to around ten seconds.

Step 3. Repeat this daily for a week or so until it becomes easier. As you gain confidence, you can start using a small dildo instead of the toothbrush handle. Over time, your gag reflex will become less sensitive and you’ll be ready to try to deep throat your guy’s dick!

Remember: Sticking a toothbrush handle (or dildo) into your mouth can introduce bacteria. Be sure to sterilize whichever item you use before each practice by placing it in boiling water.

Practice makes perfect

Deep-throating is possible in any position, but when you’re first starting out you may find a position like the Table Surfer easier. This puts your mouth and neck in alignment and makes it easier to accommodate your guy’s dick much deeper than other positions!

The first time you try to deep throat your guy’s dick, I recommend using the Big O technique to slowly build yourself up to take more and more of your guy’s shaft in your mouth. Hold his hips to limit how deeply he enters your mouth until you feel completely ready to take him deeper. If you find yourself gagging a little, remember that most guys find this a turn on, so don’t worry! With practice, you’ll get there!

Exploring new techniques

Once you are able to take your guy’s dick into your mouth all the way, you can explore uncharted territory! Here’s what I recommend:

Lick his balls
One of the sexiest techniques is to deep throat your guy’s dick and then lick his balls while his shaft is inside your mouth!

Gag on his shaft
With practice, you may be able to control the way your throat contracts around your guy’s shaft. This lets you give your guy a thrill by deliberately gagging on his shaft. Doing so will squeeze the head of his dick in the most delightful way and is sure to be an experience he never forgets!

Let him cum in your throat
One of the best reasons to learn how to deep throat is the chance to give your guy the experience of cumming in your throat. This is uniquely different from cumming in your mouth and, if you master it, will likely make your guy sexually addicted to you! Don’t say I didn’t warn you!

How to swallow cum when you suck dick

Swallowing cum isn’t for everyone and you certainly shouldn’t feel pressured into doing it if it’s not something you’re interested in. Cum tastes salty and bitter and isn’t everyone’s cup of tea. However, if you’re determined to swallow (or you want to fulfil your man’s fantasy) here’s my best advice for swallowing cum when you suck your guy’s dick!

Warning: Semen can transport infections such as Hepatitis and HIV so you should only engage in this activity with a partner who is free from STIs and HIV. If you don’t want to swallow cum, you can always swirl it around your mouth and spit it out- it’s just as sexy!

Take a facial
One approach to swallowing cum is to let your guy give you a facial and then scoop up some cum with your fingers and drop it suggestively into your mouth. This greatly limits the amount of cum you have to swallow while still giving your guy the satisfaction of seeing his sweet juice drip down your throat!

Hit it back
The second approach is to get your guy to cum into the back of your mouth and then gulp it down. This makes the cum avoid your taste buds and can dampen the salty, bitter taste that you get from taking the load directly onto your tongue.

Wash it down
There’s no getting around the fact that cum doesn’t taste great, so the third option is to have a drink or chaser on hand to wash away the taste! Take his cum in your mouth, swallow and then gulp down a strong drink to get rid of the aftertaste.

If you’re worried that gulping down a drink will give your guy the impression that you don’t want to swallow, you can try making the drink part of the action. As I explained earlier, temperature play is a great way to make sucking cock super-hot! You can take an ice cube in your mouth to give your guy an icy-cool blowjob or sip a warm drink to give him a warm buzz! Experimenting with temperatures will give you a ready excuse to have a drink on hand and help you swallow when he cums in your mouth.

Some other cool things to try include ice cream, champagne, spirits, cocktails and fizzy drinks. They’re all excellent for creating cool and unique sensations for your guy while you suck his dick AND they’re great for getting rid of the taste of cum when he blows his load in your mouth! Try it and see!

Conclusion

If you’ve read this post from start to finish, you’ll have learned a mind-boggling number of tips and techniques that you can use on your man TONIGHT…and see some incredible results!

A word of caution though: trying to remember them all is almost impossible. Instead, choose one or two techniques that tickle your fancy, try them out and add them to your repertoire. Before long, you’ll have an arsenal of killer moves that will help you suck your guy’s dick like he never though possible!

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