Morning Blowjob: The Ultimate Guide (+7 Pro Tips)

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What man doesn’t fantasize about getting a morning blowjob from their partner?

After all, there are many elements that it make it desirable. The thought of facing the day after such a wonderful encounter is enticing, and so too is the oxytocin release that’s sure to follow.

So are you prepared to give your man a mind-numbing morning blowjob? Then keep reading.

This guide will outline the anatomy of a ‘good’ blowjob. It will then dive into tips for giving your man the best blowjob experience of his life.

The guide will also offer insight and tips on a more advanced practice — deepthroating — so you can truly give your man an out-of-this-world sensual experience.

Rise and Shine: Waking Your Man With A Morning Blowjob

Whether it’s something you’ve discussed with your partner before, or it’s simply something you want to try yourself, the idea of giving (and receiving!) a morning blowjob can be excited.

Why a morning blowie?

  • You and your partner will start off your day in a great mood.
  • Oxytocin, which is released during sensual encounters, will give you a sense of closeness.
  • It’s fun to carry a dirty secret with you throughout your day-to-day!
  • You’re well rested, so there’s no excuse like being ‘too tired.’

There’s another benefit to a morning blowjob, too, and that’s the element of surprise. Your partner may know you intend to give them a morning blowjob, but they may not know the exact day. This can be a great way to keep your sex life interesting.

Of course, one thing to keep in mind is consent. It may seem tempting to surprise your man with a morning blowie. However, you should always seek out consent before the experience. Asking permission right before the encounter can take away some of the surprise, so you may prefer to ask the evening before or even just have a general conversation about it.

You can ask your partner a few simple questions so as to ensure they want their fantasy to become a reality. These include:

  • Are you okay being woken up by a morning blowjob? Or would you prefer me to ask you first?
  • Is there a day that you’d prefer the ‘surprise’ blowjob session? Like on a weekend as opposed to a weekday?

While these questions may ruin some of the surprise, it’s important that consent is always considered. Remember also that consent can be revoked at anytime.

Even if your partner agreed previously, they may not be in the mood the morning of your choosing. And that’s okay. Just be aware of your partner’s reactions, and always be sure to get explicit consent.

The Anatomy of a ‘Good’ Blowjob

Before we get into advanced techniques for giving the best head, we should first focus on the basic structure of a blowjob. There are three main stages of a blowjob, which include the tease, the buildup, and the big finish.

The Tease

Just like you don’t jump right into sex, you shouldn’t jump right into the blowjob. Instead, you should get your man all hot and bothered, and here’s how.

The blowjob is a sensual experience that uses the mouth to get the majority of the work done. You don’t have to start at the penis, though.

You can begin at the inner thigh or belly button, and slowly work your way up or down with kisses, licks, and even love bites. As you make your way to the penis, slowly back track to a previous location to build his anticipation. Use your fingertips to trail along the very top of his groin to build it up even further.

Once you’ve finally made your way to the penis, don’t take him into your mouth just yet.

You should first begin with licks and kisses that trail the length of the shaft.

Do you want to take this a step further?

Feel free to add sexual aids, such as a blindfold or hand restraints. These will give you more control, and that can be a big turn for him (and you!).

The Buildup

Now that your man is good and ready, it’s time to increase your momentum. You’ll find a rhythm that works for you, but also be sure to listen to your man’s body. This is the time that you should focus on bringing your man to climax but without trying to get him there too quickly.

Take things slowly, and focus on your technique as well as the responses of your man.

After all, a good blowjob is a marathon, not a sprint. And don’t think that your mouth is the only tool in your arsenal. Use your hands, use lube, and even use sex toys (vibrating cock ring, anyone?).

Also don’t think that the penis is the only part of his groin you should focus on. The entirety of the groin is made up of sensitive zones. More on that later.

But just remember that this part of the blowjob is the one that will have the greatest impact on the intensity of the climax. So make it good!

The Big Finish

Just because he’s cum doesn’t mean you’re done just yet.

Actually, at the climax is when you have the chance to take this experience to the next level.

It’s important that you not overstimulate the glans during this time, as this can be painful. You should instead focus on the entirety of the shaft as a way to enhance the experience.

If he’ll be finishing in your mouth, then you have a few other options at your disposal. The first is to use your throat to make a gentle, vibrating hum. This can push your man over the edge, especially as he’s in the throes of orgasm.

You can also use your tongue to dance around the glans while he’s at his peak. Whether he’s finishing in your mouth or not, you can also use your hands to focus on other sensitive areas, like the balls. Use your hands to gently massage the balls, or to rub the taint. You can trail your fingers up and down his thighs or other areas with a lot of nerves.

It’s good to think of what you do during this time as supporting his orgasm. This may mean making it last a bit longer, or making it that much more intense during its final moments.

7 Tips to Give Your Man a Mind Numbing Blowjob

Do you want to bring your blowjob skills to the next level? Then take a look at the expert tips below.

Start Slow

If you think of a blowjob as an actual job, then you’re doing it wrong. The truth is that your man will sense your dislike for the ‘task,’ and this will turn what could be a pleasurable experience into an uncomfortable one.

So, what’s one way to show your man that you’re truly into the ‘job’ at hand?

First and foremost, by taking it nice and slow. Especially in the beginning, it’s great to take your time to get your man acclimated to the sensations.

You don’t have to start in the typical fashion. In fact, I’d highly discourage it.

Instead, you should take a roundabout route of getting to the main job. Glide your tongue up and down his shaft. Spit onto the tip of his penis while looking him in the eyes. Gently coddle his balls as you take his penis into your mouth.

The possibilities are endless.

Know His Sensitive Spots

It seems to be common knowledge that women have an array of erogenous zones that men can use to tickle and tease. Men are no different.

And while these spots may change from man to man, there are a few spots that most men find to be the most sensitive. For example:

  • Frenulum. This is the part of the penis where the glans (head) and the shaft meet and, for many men, it’s their most sensitive spot. To really drive him wild, give it a few flicks every once in awhile. Doing this too often can cause sensation overload, but a few times will give him a spike of pleasure he’ll love.
  • Glans. The glans is the head of the penis, and this is where the majority of the penis’s nerves reside. Just like the clitoris, the glans can easily become overstimulated. So you’ll want to start slow and focus on other areas of the penis in addition to the glans.
  • Perineum. While not part of the penis, it’s a fun spot to include here anyway. The perineum, also known as the taint, is the area of skin that separates the scrotum from the anus. There are also a lot of nerves bundled here, and as the skin is thin light touches can be a powerful stimulator.

You don’t have to focus just on the penis and testicles for a mind-numbing blowjob. You can use this time to also bring attention to other sensitive parts on his body, like the inner thighs, behind the knees, nipples, and the neck.

Don’t be afraid to make his morning blowjob a full body experience!

Show Enthusiasm

There’s nothing hotter than a woman who is enjoying giving a blowjob. Even if blowjobs aren’t your favorite thing to do in the bedroom, they can be a fun way to please your man. So, fake it til’ you make it!

Moans, groans, and sighs are great ways to add a bit of enthusiasm to the routine. And if you’re feeling up to it, you can even touch yourself throughout the process to turn your enthusiasm into something more.

Take a Trip Down Under

If your man is adventurous, and if he’s given his express approval, then why not take a little trip down south? By that, I mean the anus.

If this is your first time venturing to the anus, then you’ll probably want to take it slow yourself. So, you likely won’t want to start with your tongue. But why not use a finger or two to massage the area, and perhaps work your way up to a little insertion?

Once you’ve gotten more comfortable with the idea, you can even glide your tongue from his shaft to his balls to his perineum and then the anus. This slow, trailing motion will cause an explosion of pleasure, and it’s a great little number to work into your usual routine.

Make Eye Contact

There seems to be a prevailing stigma surrounding blowjobs that they’re a quick and dirty act that no decent human being would ever perform.

But even blowjobs can be a sensual act that brings you and your partner closer.

One way to do so is by increasing intimacy with a bit of eye contact. When you make eye contact during the act, you and your partner are sharing a vulnerable moment. And this can be incredibly arousing for him as well as you!

Draw It Out

In this fast-paced world, it’s easy to want to finish thing as fast as possible. An intense orgasm, though, takes time. And if you want your man to experience the greatest pleasure during his morning BJ session, then it’s important to draw it out.

  • Edging. This is the most common technique for drawing our pleasure, and it’s also one of the most intense. The concept of edging is to bring your partner to the brink of orgasm but stop stimulation just before they cum. You repeat this for however long they can stand, and the accompanying orgasm is out of this world.
  • Deep breathing. Another way to draw out the experience is to have your man practice deep breathing. This will take a bit of his focus away from the task at hand, which will make it more likely for him to last just a bit longer.

As you become accustomed to your partners wants and needs, you’ll know just the right amount of time to spend on what tasks. You’ll also know just how far you can push your partner before they go over the brink.

Is your man one to cum quickly? The techniques above can also help him to last longer which is a great boost to his confidence.

Swallow, Don’t Spit

Some women spit, while others swallow. There’s no right or wrong here.

If you’re able to let him finish inside your mouth, though, then doing so can make his orgasm all the more pleasurable.

There’s a physical element to it, sure. But the act of finishing in your mouth also gives your man a sense of power. This can be a huge turn on, both turning the actual experience and as he remembers it later.

An Advanced Technique for His Pleasure: Deepthroating

If you’re serious about giving your man a pleasurable blowjob, whether in the morning or otherwise, then deepthroating should be the next technique on your list.

Deepthroating is just as it sounds. It’s the act of taking your partner’s penis deep into your mouth until it makes contact with your throat, or even surpasses it. The act itself can be daunting to even the most experienced of sexual partners. A little bit of practice and preparation, though, will go a long way.

For some people, you may need to just dive right in. But for others, it can help to slowly ease into the process.

So perhaps you go deeper each time you give your partner a blowjob. Or maybe you go incrementally deeper throughout his blowjob session. But however long it takes you, just remember that your partner appreciates you’re trying. So even if it’s difficult at first, you shouldn’t feel like a failure.

Are you still struggling to get past a certain point? It can sometimes be a physical issue (e.g. a strong gag reflex) or a mental block. But either way, here’s a few tips to get you up to the challenge:

  • Use a numbing throat spray. In some cases, it may help to use a numbing spray the first few times to get past that mental block. This is also a good tip for those who have a particularly strong gag reflex.
  • Focus on your breathing. Before you begin, take a few deep breaths. Get into a comfortable breathing pattern, and begin to count. An example is an 8-second inhale, a 3-second pause, and then an 7-second exhale. Continue this pattern as you take him into your mouth, and as you begin to go deeper and deeper.
  • Try a new position. There are dozens of oral sex positions to choose from. So if you’re having trouble deepthroating in one position, you have plenty more to try. If you’re new to deepthroating, positions where you’re in control are your best bet.

If you aren’t comfortable with deepthroating, that’s fine. There are still plenty of ways to please your man during a blowjob without deepthroating.

But you owe it to yourself and your man to give it a try at least once.

Conclusion

We hope you found this ultimate guide to be helpful and full of actionable tips. If you diligently apply what you’ve read here, then you’re soon to have one very happy and sexually satisfied partner.

This satisfaction can spill into other aspects of your relationship — sexual and otherwise. And it’s a great way to get even closer to your partner.

Do keep in mind that consent is important. So before you take on this morning encounter, be sure to have a general conversation surrounding consent with your partner.

And remember that there’s no reason you can’t enjoy this experience too. When you shift your mindset, giving a blowie can become (almost) as fun as getting one.

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