Pussy Worship: Everything You Need to Know

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Heard of pussy worship and wondered if it was a real thing? Well yes, it is, and it’s awesome! The pussy goes by many names but what really matters is that it’s treated with respect. The pussy is a temple and deserves to be worshiped for all it’s worth. So if you’re new to the idea of pussy worship, sit tight; you’re about to learn all about this thrilling and rewarding practice!

A woman’s pussy is her temple. It leads to the source of human life and should be treated with love, respect and deference. Sadly, not all guys know how to give it the respect it deserves and not all girls know how to treat their temple right. Whether you want to learn how to worship your partner’s pussy or you’re looking for ways to give your own pussy the reverence it deserves, you’ve come to the perfect place!

In this guide, I’m going to be teaching you everything you need to know about pussy worship. While I’ll be using gendered pronouns to talk about pussy worship, this guide is open to everyone, regardless of gender or sexual orientation. If you have a pussy, this guide will open your mind to the delights of pussy worship. I’ll teach you exactly what to do, what to say and how to act to make pussy worship feel fabulous! If your partner has a pussy, my step-by-step instructions couldn’t be simpler. Just follow my advice and you’ll be worshiping your partner’s pussy like a pro in no time!

What is pussy worship?

The pussy is the most powerful, intimate and sacred region of the female body. Like a sacred temple, the pussy acts as a gateway to the womb, the uterus, the ovaries and all of the powerful, beautiful, feminine areas within a woman’s body. The pussy also leads to a woman’s orgasmic areas such as her G-spot and A-spot!

Pussy worship can take many forms. At one end of the spectrum, you have things like poetry, art and even music devoted to the pussy. From pussy art prints to vaginal paintings, there is an eclectic array of art across a wide range of mediums devoted to celebrating the pussy.

On the other end of the spectrum, pussy worship refers to the physical act of worshiping the pussy through things like vulva massage, oral sex, intercourse, and even sex orgies. Women can worship their own pussy by practicing self-love and becoming more attuned to the needs of their own bodies. Pussy worship can also be something that a woman’s partner does to them and it can also be something that she asks for.

Pussy worship is common in BDSM practices where the ‘pussy-haver’ takes on a dominant and assertive role. They instruct their partner to worship their pussy as a way of making them demonstrate their respect and subservience.

What unites all of these disparate practices is the belief that the pussy is something to be cherished and respected. Pussy worshiping always takes place with the consent of the woman (or women) involved and is a way of showing respect and adoration for the person as well as for their pussy.

The benefits of pussy worship

Pussy worship offers an array of amazing benefits for both women and men!

Self-love

When done as part of self-love, pussy worship can be a daily practice that helps women appreciate their femininity. Being able to get in touch with your own pussy and worship her brings you a sense of wholeness and completeness. It lets you get in touch with your emotions and self-actualization and spirituality.

Pleasure and satisfaction

When practiced as part of a loving relationship, pussy worship offers benefits to both the receiving partner (the ‘worshiped’) and the giving partner (the ‘worshiper’). For the worshiped partner, pussy worship offers pleasure and satisfaction. The pussy deserves to be gazed upon in awe and wonder. The giver should have complete adoration and reverence for the pussy. It’s the part of the body that not only has the most receptive and allows you to experience pleasure in whatever ways feel good but it also allows you to birth human life.

Emotional and physical well-being

The pussy is a sacred passageway to a woman’s cervix, her G-spot and her inner portals of pleasure. It is one of the body’s most powerful erogenous zones and having it licked, kissed and adored can feel unbelievably good! The pussy is packed with a relatively high concentration of nerve endings making it feel intensely pleasurable! Besides leading to the womb and the cervix. There’s also a reflexology zone in the vagina near the cervix that corresponds with the heart. So when you’re worshiping your pussy, you’re also cultivating your heart!

Exploring fantasies and emotions

If you want to explore pussy worship is a role-play or BDSM scenario, having your partner worship your pussy lets you experience dominance and control in ways you’ve never experienced before!

For the worshiper, the person worshiping the pussy, the pleasure is more usually based more on the principle of the act. It feels good to give someone the ultimate pleasure with your tongue, teeth and mouth. Pussy worshiping is all about surrendering to the person with the pussy and giving them the gift of presence and pleasure.

Worshiping pussy is a complete honor – it’s transformational and extremely erotic. What’s even hotter is worshiping as part of BDSM or role-play; the sense of feeling subservient and being made to do as you’re told is really kinky!

How to worship your own pussy

If you have a pussy, this is the section for you! Worshiping your pussy is an important part of self-pleasure. Here is a selection of the best techniques that I regularly use myself and recommend to others. You can try them alone or share them with your partner!

(By the way, if you don’t have a pussy, I still encourage you to read this section to learn more about pussy worship! You can share these techniques with your partner and explore them together!)

Look at your pussy

The first step is to look at your pussy. I recommend buying a really pretty, ornate mirror to do this. I absolutely love popping a mirror between my legs and gazing in awe and admiration at my pussy! If this is new for you, this might bring up some feelings of shame or self-judgment about the way your vulva looks, or the way your inner and out labia looks. Just cast aside these emotions and be committed to looking at your pussy without shame or judgment. With regular practice, these feelings will subside.

Partner tip: If your partner has a pussy, gazing at it is one of the best ways to initiate pussy worship! It’s a simple and beautiful ritual that can help make the woman feel like the center of attention. Just gaze and enjoy it!

Touch your vulva often

I suggest regularly touching your vulva throughout the day to help build a mind-body connection. If you’re anything like me, you probably spend your life disregarding your pussy and ignoring what it is telling you. If you lack the ability to feel the lifeforce energy in our pussy, regularly touching it will help.

Treat your pussy as your oracle

Because the pussy has been so shut down, due to conditioning, shame, or trauma, we tend to disregard our pussy. However, our pussy can help us naturally respond to life’s events. Most of us haven’t been trained to listen to her voice, but the pussy is juicy, open and receptive. For me, I often feel like my pussy is pulsing and opening when something really exciting happens.

If you are able to really tune into your pussy, it can help you make important decisions. If it’s juicing, throbbing and pulsing – it’s a ‘Yes’. If your feeling your pussy closes up, dries up or – that can be a ‘No’.

Give yourself a pussy massage

Pussy or Yoni massage is very common and is widely practiced in the tantric sex community. While you can have your partner do this for, it’s also great to have this as a weekly solo practice to help you connect with yourself. This isn’t about self-pleasure or orgasm, but about exploring your pussy with a positive attitude. I’ll show you exactly how to give yourself a pussy massage in the next section!

Use a sex egg

One of the best ways to worship your pussy is to use a sex egg. When used regularly, sex eggs can help to strengthen and tone your pussy and become more attuned to what it’s trying to tell you. While sex eggs can be used for pleasure, they can also help you respect and honor your pussy and can form part of any pussy worship session.

For a simple yet pleasurable sex egg routine that you can do, I personally use the following three-step routine. I do this myself on a weekly basis and it’s fantastic! It will help you tap into your sexual energy and your erotic nature. It will feel even more orgasmic every time you practice and it’s super-fun!

This routine is all about helping you listen to and trust your body, so feel free to add in your own flow and movements. I suggest buying a sex egg to practice with but you can also try these exercises without any egg at all; it will feel less intense.

So pop your egg in and let’s get started!

Hip undulations

Sit down with your knees splayed as if you are about to go down in the child yoga pose. Start in the up position with your butt in the air and your back curved downwards. Squeeze around the egg and hold for a few seconds, then exhale and release as you lower yourself down. Repeat this six times.

The Cat-cow

For the next position, come into a cow pose – like the Table-top position in yoga. Arch your back downwards and exhale while squeezing around the egg, then arch your back upwards and inhale, letting go of the squeeze. Repeat this six times.

Seated hip circles

For the last move, sit cross-legged on the floor with your back straight. Place one foot against your clitoris and vaginal opening and put the other foot on your shin. Breath forward and rotate your hips while squeezing around the egg or squeezing your pelvic floor muscles. Ground your hips into the ground, inhale forward, squeeze and then exhale as you circle backward. Do this six times in each direction or whichever way feels best.

Worshiping your partner’s pussy: How to get started

In a partnered scenario, pussy worship is all about helping your woman get into the right headspace and form a deeper connection between her mind and her pussy. In this section, I’ll show you exactly how to get started with worshiping your partner’s pussy and celebrate it in all its glory!

Remove her mental barriers

If you want to worship your partner’s pussy, you need to take time to help her relax and unwind. Your woman won’t enjoy pussy worship if she’s preoccupied or stressed out. For women, being stressed is liking having the parking brake on their sexuality; they can’t relax until it’s released!

That’s why the first step you should take before you start pussy worship is to find any stresses that your woman is facing and help her address them. Some sources of stress, worry and anxiety are too complex and won’t have an immediate solution. However, if you show an interest and are genuine about wanting to help her, she’ll appreciate your efforts and will become more relaxed.

For example, if your woman feels overwhelmed with stresses at work, you could ask her about her day and let her vent. A problem shared is a problem halved and she’ll appreciate having a supportive ear to listen to.

If she’s stressed about cooking, why not order takeout or prepare a meal yourself and surprise her with it?

Likewise, you can always pick up your share of the household chores and give her some breathing space.

Create a comfortable environment

The second thing you can do to prepare for pussy worship is to prepare a comfortable space where you woman can completely relax. Things like dimming the lights, playing some soothing mood music, lighting some candles and using some aromatherapy oil are all excellent ways that will help encourage your woman to connect with her emotional side and explore what her pussy means to her.

Prepare her body

To help your lover prepare her body for pussy worship, you may like to encourage her to have a long, soothing shower, or a steamy soak in the tub. Using essential oils such as lavender can help her relax and can loosen up her vaginal muscles. This makes them more open to being touched and explored later on.

Be ‘present’

The secret to worshiping your partner’s pussy is simply being present. To initiate pussy worship, simply sit or kneel in front of your woman in complete silence. Notice how deeply she’s breathing, the sound of her breath, and the flow of her body, from her head to her tummy and her pussy. It’s natural for this to feel a little awkward at first, but once your anxiety subsides it can make you both feel aroused and excited all at once.

Make eye contact

As you sit and watch your woman, make strong eye contact. Your woman’s eyes are the gateway to her soul, and your eyes will tell her everything. Maintain eye contact throughout by looking deeply into her eyes as you watch her. She’ll feel your sincerity and warmth.

If your woman doesn’t feel comfortable enough to hold eye contact and finds it too overwhelming, don’t take it personally. Simply stay present and give her what she needs. It’s perfectly normal for her to cry or yell if that’s what she feels like. Simply being with her is enough to soothe her heart and worship her pussy.

Touch her heart

The first type of physical touching that you initiate can be touching her heart. Place your hand over her heart while you sit and watch her. A woman’s heart is the center of positive energy in her body and touching her there will be beautiful and unique and help you feel more connected.

How to communicate during pussy worship

I’ve touched briefly on the importance of communication but before I teach you the specific techniques and positions to use during pussy worship, it’s worth going over how to communicate during pussy worship. Here are some pointers…

Make it about her

Pussy massage is all about HER. You are serving and she is receiving. All of your verbal communication should be focused on meeting her needs.

You’ll want to ask her things like:

“What do you want more of?”
“What do you love?”
“What feels best?”

Keeping the communication squarely on her needs, desires and preferences is key to making the pussy worship experience wonderful and sacred.

Make her the center of your world

What women crave most is feeling desired. It’s better than an orgasm. And when you’re worshiping your woman’s pussy, it’s essential to make her the center of your entire world. Your every utterance should be about what you truly love and adore about her!

Try saying things like:

“I love how soft and beautiful your pussy is”
“Your pussy smells amazing. I love its scent.”
“Your clitoris looks so sweet.”

Later on, if and when you try some fingering and cunnilingus techniques, you can try saying things like;

“I love how your pussy opens up when I touch it.”
“I love how your clit tastes.”
“I love how your pussy tastes.”

Later on in this guide, I’ll be exploring dirty talk, but for now, follow these two tips consistently – while giving a pussy massage, and while trying out the fingering and throughout oral sex.

3 mind-blowing pussy massage techniques you should know

Pussy worshiping is unique to each person but pussy massage is one of the best pussy worship techniques you can try! While the best techniques to use will depend on your woman’s preferences and her goals for the pussy worshiping session, there are some external massage techniques that she’s sure to love!

Why external massage techniques? They take the emphasis away from sexual gratification and makes the pussy worship more about helping her connect with her feminine side than about anything to do with being hot and steamy.

In this section, I’ll show you three mind-blowing pussy massage techniques that you can explore with your partner as part of pussy worship. Best of all, you can try these out tonight and see some amazing results!

Take things slow

The best thing you can do to make pussy worshiping feel divine is to do everything at half speed. Make an effort to consciously slow down your movements while you touch your woman. As you touch her heart, look her in the eyes and slowly move to other areas. This will help prepare her body for the physical actions to follow, such as pussy massage, touching her pussy, or cunnilingus!

When you’re ready to start giving your woman a pussy massage, don’t just dive right in. Instead, have her lie facing downwards on a bed. Instead of jumping straight to her pussy, give her a slow, sensual foot massage with plenty of oil and lube. Massage along the backs of her legs until she is blissfully relaxed. Touch her sensually by running your thumbs along her inner thighs and edging towards her pussy with your fingers. This helps warm up her body and relax into the experience.

What’s most important is that you make the pussy worship about more than just touching your woman’s pussy. Pussy worship has to be a ceremony of sorts and massage should be a way of showing her just how much you value her.

Once your woman is nicely relaxed, so can encourage her to lie on her back and then start moving to the next technique…

Cup her vagina

One of the best ways to start pussy worship is by using a pussy massage technique known as ‘cupping’. Simply form your hand into a cup-like shape and hold it over your woman’s vulva. This will give her vagina and clitoris some light stimulation without making the experience too sexual.

Technique
Form a cup shape with one of your hands and hold it in place over your woman’s vulva. Encourage her to breathe in deeply through her nose and out through her mouth while you do this. As she starts to relax, talk to her about how it feels and she can start forming a mind-body connection with her pussy. She’ll just melt in your hand!

Stroke her labia

The third pussy massage technique you should know is stroking gently up and down her labia. Your woman’s inner and outer labia are packed full of nerve endings and the stroking will feel divine! This is guaranteed to make her relaxed without necessarily making her feel horny. This puts her in the right mood to enjoy pussy worship!

Technique
Before you start stroking your partner’s inner and outer labia, put plenty of water-based lube on your index and middle fingers and gently rest them on her labia. Running them across the labia in a super-smooth motion will create some mind-blowing feelings and can help her get ready for pussy worship.

I’m confident that these three pussy massage techniques will work wonders for pussy worship. However, if you want to give your woman a more sexual, sensual massage, I’ve got you covered. In my ultimate guide to making a girl orgasm you’ll find a range of amazing internal massage techniques that will let you focus on areas such as her clitoris and G-spot as these will help her discover new areas that can be stimulated for pleasure!


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The best fingering moves for pussy worship

After giving your woman a body and pussy massage, you may like to finger her clit and pussy to help her relax. There’s no right or wrong way to finger your woman’s pussy as part of pussy worship. However, there are two amazing moves that I’d like to share that will certainly help to enhance the experience!

The Two-finger Twirl

One of the best fingering techniques you should know for pussy worship is called the Two-finger twirl. Here’s what to do:

Technique
To start, simply place your index and middle fingers on either side of your partner’s clitoris. Using a little pressure, you can start moving your fingers around in a circular motion. Focus on how deeply she is breathing, how much she is arching her back and curling her toes. Enjoyment is often communicated non-verbally, so focus on her actions. 

 

Remember to keep whispering sweet nothings into her ear while you do this. This will make the experience all about meeting her needs and focusing your entire world on her pleasure.

The Clit finger

The second fingering move you should know for pussy worship is called the Clit finger. This is an ideal way to help your woman connect with her feminine side and appreciate the magic of her pussy.

Word of warning: some women find that their clitoris is TOO SENSITIVE to be touched directly so be sure to discuss this beforehand.

Technique
Using plenty of lube, put your finger over your woman’s clitoral hood and gradually stroke downwards. Once you reach her vaginal opening, return to the top and repeat. This is a great move to use during pussy worship as it is sensual without being too sexual.

How to eat her pussy during pussy worship

Pussy worship doesn’t have to be about sexual pleasure at all. But it can be if she wants it to be! And that’s the whole point of pussy worship: pleasing your woman and treating her pussy like a temple.

A huge part of pussy worship during partnered play is eating pussy. Kissing. Tonguing. Licking. Sucking. Nibbling. Even biting. It doesn’t matter what you do; the key point is you listen to your woman and do exactly what she tells you what she wants and what feels best. Got it?

That being said, most guys think that pussy worship is all above plain, old fashioned cunnilingus. They break out their favorite moves (mostly copied from porn) and wonder why the woman isn’t into it!

As the giving partner, your role is to service your woman’s every need. The ONE MISTAKE that most guys make during pussy worship is relying on their tongue to do all the hard work. This inevitably means that the pussy worship doesn’t last long and they get tired out LONG before their woman is satisfied. So what’s a guy to do?

To help you worship your woman’s pussy just like it deserves, I’m going to teach you a simple technique called the Tongue Swirl! This uses your neck muscles (not your tongue) and will help you last the distance. To master this move, simply spread your tongue out and lay it over your woman’s vulva.

Press your tongue over your woman’s vulva and look up at her. Make direct eye contact and start moving your entire head (not just your tongue) in a variety of ways, such as:

  • Side to side
  • Round and round
  • Up and down

Look up into your woman’s eyes and see which technique she prefers. If she’s vocal and used to saying what she wants, she can let you know. If not, keep asking her which feels best and which she wants to do more of. Pay attention to her non-verbal cues so see which movement she enjoys the most.

The SECRET to the Tongue swirl is that your neck muscles do all the hard work. Your tongue remains flat so it doesn’t get tired out. This lets you last long enough to worship her pussy without letting her down.

If you’re looking for other ways to eat her pussy, click here to discover my other top techniques!

The ultimate sex positions for pussy worship

Pussy massage. Fingering. Eating her pussy. There are many ways to worship your partner’s pussy. But one of the most important considerations is the position you choose. Depending on her preferences, a position can be sultry and relaxing, or hard and dominating. It’s her call! If you’re looking for some tips, here are three of my FAVORITE positions you can try for pussy worship right now!

1. The Lazy Girl

If you want to worship your woman’s pussy like she deserves, the Lazy Girl position should be your go-to move!

Technique
Have your woman sit on a chair with her legs splayed. Kneel between her legs and place her feet on your thighs. Hold her hips and start nibbling her inner thighs all the way to her vulva. Look her in the eyes and use the Tongue Swirl (or other technique) to worship her pussy in any way she desires!

Advantages:

  • This position puts her in a very dominant She can see everything you do and direct your tongue and lips into exactly the right places!
  • This position is comfortable for her and lets her relax into the experience, helping her form a strong mind-body connection with her pussy.

Disadvantages:

  • Tough on your knees. Try kneeling on a cushion so that you can stay down there longer and worship her pussy for as long as she wants!
  • Neck cramps. If the chair is too low, you may find your neck muscles cramping up – especially if your woman demands that you use a rotating motion. If you can’t find a higher chair to use, try asking your woman to sit on a pillow to raise her hips to a more comfortable height.

2. The Elevator

The Elevator position is so-called because it’s perfect for quickie sex (no prizes for guessing where!) and it’s also perfect for pussy worship. This sexy position is SURE to make your woman feel dominant and in charge!

Technique:
Have your woman stand shoulder-width apart and kneel in front of her. Look her straight in her eyes and start caressing, kissing and nibbling her inner-thighs. Work your way up to her vulva and start using the Tongue Swirl (or other technique) on her pussy any way that she likes!

Advantages:

  • This Elevator position puts the receiving partner is a VERY dominant position, making it ideal for BDSM and fetish play!
  • This position makes it easy for the receiving partner to control exactly where the stimulation goes.

Disadvantages:

  • Like the Lazy Girl position, the Elevator can be tough on your knees. Try crouching instead to make sure you can worship for as long as possible.
  • Not everyone can relax in a standing position while having their pussy eaten out. The receiving partner can put her feet on the giver’s thighs to make it more comfortable – a real power move!

3. The Goddess

Your partner’s pussy is a temple, so why not treat her like a goddess? If you want to celebrate your partner’s pussy is all the right ways, the Goddess is one move that you need to master!

Technique:
You lie on your back and have your woman straddle your head. She places one knee on either side of you and then supports her weight on your chest. She lowers her pussy down until it is hovering over your mouth. You start to worship her pussy in all the ways she desires!

Advantages:

  • The Goddess position is extremely comfortable and will help her relax as you worship her sacred temple.
  • In this position, you’ll have easy access to her entire pussy from her clitoris to her vagina. You can use your hands to spread her vulva wide as you worship her.

Disadvantage

  • This position lacks the opportunity for eye contact that other positions offer. If she really misses having you gaze into her eyes, she can rotate and sit the other way.

Pussy worship and BDSM – tips for making it orgasmic

Pussy worship is a common feature of many BDSM-related practices such as role-play, humiliation and femdom.

In bondage and discipline play, pussy worship can be used by the receiving partner to ‘punish’ the giver or as a reward for completing a certain task or activity.

In dominance and submission activities such as “master and slave” and other role-playing scenarios, pussy worship can be used as a way for the receiving partner the chance to enjoy being dominant and having their partner fulfill their every whim and desire! The giving partner has the chance to be subservient and show their deference. If you want to tie them up, all the better!

Pussy worship can also be explored during sadism and masochism activities; the receiving partner will take pleasure from humiliating the giver as they lick their pussy, while the giver will receive pleasure from being humiliated.

If you’re looking to try pussy worship as part of a BDSM-related activity, I’ve got you. Here are my top tips for making pussy worship an enjoyable and orgasmic!

Talk dirty

If you plan to be the receiving partner during pussy worship, the art of making it erotic lies in talking dirty. Dirty talk will turn you and your partner on and allow you both to explore your fantasies and limitations safely.

Be direct

In dominance or discipline play, you need to be straightforward and direct. Tell your partner exactly what you want and how to do it. For example, you can set the scene by saying something like; “I get what I want and I do what I want. Do you understand?” When your partner starts worshiping your pussy, feed them instructions such as, “Lick it and taste it,” and “Tell me how good it tastes.”

Tease your partner

To keep your partner in suspense about what you have planned next, try teasing them with rhetorical questions. Use phrases such as “Do you want to get this pretty pussy? and “You just want to worship this pussy, don’t you” Teasing your partner will keep their excitement levels high and will make the whole experience orgasmic!

Be specific

Whether you want to use pussy worship to dominant, punish or humiliate your partner, the important thing is that you guide what they say and what they do. Tell them to do and say exactly what you want with phrases such as “Why don’t you smell it. Tell me how good it smells,” and “Stick your face in there. I want you to be my pussy slave.” By controlling and guiding your partner to say and do exactly as you please, you are ensuring that they worship your pussy in exactly the right ways!

Conclusion

As you’ve seen, pussy worship can take many forms but what ties all of them together is that they are all about HER. Pussy worship – whether a solo act or part of partnered-play – is about her receiving and exploring whatever she loves, desires and cherishes.

I’m confident that the techniques, tips, and positions in this guide will make the experience of pussy worship fantastic for you and your partner! Likewise, if you’re interested in returning the favor to a male partner, you should check out our guide to cock worship. Pussy worship is all about enjoying a wonderful experience, so stay safe and have fun!

Good luck!

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